today i did chat with taher one of my old friends that was(and is) in love with a girl from another city of iran ,
his condition is almost same as me except that his love is in same country and so close to him (different cities though) , but he has same troubles like me about money/military service/university/family etc etc ..
he said brb while we were chatting and after some minute that he returned , he told me that his girl friend had called him ,
and told him that it is raining so i got sad ... and asked him that when you will come to her city ...
because shes feeling lonely... ,

and taher have told me before that he wants to go there but he needs money to fly there by airplane just for 1 day !! and he needs money to buy a gift for her ... and that has to be soooo expensive or big gift ...pfff

i told him that wtf are you doing taher !! your friend wants you to be there and you're thinking about MONEY right now ? FOR some stupid GIFTs ?
you have to go there but NOT by airplane , you can just take bus and it won't take more than 6-7 hours to be there !! and 1 DAY isn't enough ,
don't be stupid taher ! your friend wants you to be there and you slack ... be a man !you have to be there when she needs you !! to be with her and may have fun by going around and it doen't cost money THAT muuuuch .

and told him that if it was my friend(bestrider i mean) that asked me to be there , i would even start running RIGHT NOW ! to be there as fast as possible ! without passport without waiting even 1 SEC !! but unfortunately my problem is a bit more than taher ,

and i hope he won't do anything wrong on his relation with her really , i know he loves her and she might love him back , and it's enough for now , she has to see him like a man that goes all these ways just to see and be around with her for 1-3 days at least ,